Showing posts with label Proverbs 31:10-31. Show all posts
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Monday, July 17, 2023

treasures


Young Woman with a Pearl Necklace by Jan Vermeer van Delft 



Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 

A competent wife, how does one find her? Her value is far above pearls.

What a rare find is a capable wife! Her worth is far beyond that of rubies.


(Proverbs 31:10, three times.)

Rubies, pearls, rubies: clearly a wise husband knows he has a precious gift in a good partner.

What chance we will know a treasure when it appears before us? The blessing of another person, the gift of a sunset or of rain, the courtesy shown by a cautious driver, the laughter of a friend. These are treasures great and small, not all worth more than precious jewels, but all worthy of appreciation and thanks.

In the gospel story for the end of July 2023 we come across another treasure, in a story told by Jesus: a treasure hidden in a field. Finding it, the finder does not waste any time, but goes and buys the field, in order to have the treasure. Drop everything else. This is it. Next to it nothing else matters. They fade into the background. 

Kind of like falling in love. All else fades away, just a murmur of sound and some vague apparitions, form the background. If you see the one right in front of you, my friend, for who they are.

Jesus does not say the kingdom is like a person falling in love, but does he have to? The single-minded vision is there, the incautious extravagance of setting all other agenda aside, the rightness of doing so. 

“The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which someone found and hid; then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field. 

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant in search of fine pearls; on finding one pearl of great value, he went and sold all that he had and bought it.” (Matthew 13:44,45)

Worth it.






Young Woman with a Pearl Necklace by Jan Vermeer van Delft (Public Domain) https://artsandculture.google.com/asset/young-woman-with-a-pearl-necklace-jan-vermeer-van-delft/kQFMVJh6zAXoxQ © Staatliche Museen zu Berlin, Gemäldegalerie / Image by Google

Sunday, September 23, 2012

a partner for life


The truly capable woman – who can find her? She is far beyond the price of pearls.

(Proverbs 31:10 NJB)

It is about you; it isn’t just about you.

It is about a woman, capable, strong, powerful, productive, full of virtues. She is Ruth, Naomi, Esther, Sarah, Lydia, Mary, and Old Mrs. Lynch, all rolled into one.

But it’s about more than that, and about more of us than just wives. It is in fact advice for all people. This passage completes the book of Proverbs – a book about Wisdom, how and why to have Wisdom with you in your life.

This advice you might say is for a young man starting out in life: “What you need is a good wife… Ah! But who can find a truly capable woman?”

But this advice is not just advice to a young man on seeking a spouse and helpmeet. It is advice to all people of faith on the partner each of us needs to team up with, whatever our station in life – single, married, old, young, male or female.

Wisdom is the partner that you need beside you – and Wisdom is the companion, the guide, that the Church, the people of God, need as they journey together on the path God sets before them.

Like Sarah and Abraham setting out for the land of promise, we, the people of God today, seek God’s leading and desire God’s guiding presence.

This partner is with us, and vindicates us, even when it seems that no human partner is available. The un-chosen maiden, the childless couple, the bereaved grandmother, the lonely child: these are God’s people, God’s chosen, God’s beloved, God’s blessed ones; and their companion is Wisdom.

The spirit of Wisdom is the Spirit of God. God is present with us. Emmanuel. Even now.

Like a dove descending, like a pillar of fire, like a quiet ripple on the water, like thunder.

Like - a truly capable woman.

We can be open to God’s leading, if we realize – God is with us. Wisdom is our partner.

And we are on the journey together. 


Proverbs 31:10-31
Psalm 1
James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a
Mark 9:30-37
Proper 20
 



Sunday, November 8, 2009

the widows’ might

Today we have heard a part of the story of Naomi, returning from exile, of Ruth, the foreigner in a foreign land, and of Boaz, who is there to meet them.

It is a story that moves from famine to harvest, from scarcity to abundance, from widowing to wedding, from poverty and widowhood to providence and safety.

Naomi, the tale tells us, was a woman of Israel who had traveled to the land of Moab in a time of famine. She had been married then, and had two sons, who married local women, there in Moab, Orpah and Ruth.

Those men, all three of them, had died. And so Naomi was left alone in a far country.

Could she provide new husbands for her daughters-in-law? No, she said, I cannot. All I can do is return, alone, to the land I came from long ago, and hope to make out some kind of living there among the people who once knew me. Leave me, and return to your own people, she said. Orpah did so, turning back from the long road to Israel, and saying farewell to Naomi, but Ruth stuck with her.

Where you go I will go, where you live I will live; your God will be my God, your people my people; where you are buried there will I be buried also. And so the two of them set out, crossing the miles and miles from one side of the Jordan to the other and moving up into the hill country of Ephraim, to the little town of Bethlehem.

It was in this country, the home country Naomi had come from, that they hoped to live.

Would Naomi be accepted back? Would anyone remember her? What about her husband’s land, the inheritance she would have to reclaim to make a living from? Could she, with the younger widow working beside her, farm it and live on the produce? In the meantime, how were they to eat?

It is a harvest time. Ruth goes out, to gather the grain left behind by the reapers; she is gleaning, a traditional way the poor kept from starving.

She finds favor in the sight of the farmer. His name is Boaz, and he has heard of her selfless care for her mother-in-law; in fact, he is kin. And he knows the law of the land—the law that laid out a role for the next of kin, the closest male relative to Naomi’s late husband and Ruth’s, to serve as the redeemer, the one to take over the care of the inheritance and of the family’s future.

Imagine the sorrow and loneliness Ruth felt; now turning to joy. She had been a widow from a far country, traveling among strangers and serving her mother-in-law. She had been gleaning in the fields, trying to make a livelihood out of poverty and forbearance, and had been rewarded with the regard of the man in whose fields she had gleaned.

Her mother-in-law, a widow too, saw this and, savvy to the ways of men, saw a way out of poverty. Put on your best clothes, my daughter, and go to the threshing floor tonight, where Boaz will be resting. Quietly go to him in the night. He’ll take it from there.

Ruth comes home that night to Naomi, bearing grain in her cloak— and good news. It must have been clear from her face.

Naomi may have thought things would progress farther than they had, in one way. Boaz had a good heart and saw that Ruth had one too. He continued to look after her, and did offer her protection, not the warmth of a night’s blanket but a lifetime of husband-hood.

Already he—a man of means, and of generous manner—saw in her his equal, calling her a worthy woman, that is, a person of honor and wisdom, like the capable wife, the accomplished life-partner, extolled in Proverbs (31:10-31).

He went to the city gate in the morning, where such business was transacted in that land, and there he made the deal— to a closer kinsman of Naomi, the one who had prior rights, he said, you are the redeemer, if you choose to be, of the inheritance of Naomi: a parcel of land, to farm, and a daughter-in-law, with whom to marry and raise a family. This is what you have to redeem, if you will be the redeemer.

I cannot do it, said the other man; I have an inheritance of my own to protect. And so he sealed the deal with Boaz, clearing the way for the marriage— and a new life for Ruth, and Naomi.

Soon there would be children, and this stranger to Israel, this sojourner in their midst, became one of them. Her faithfulness, her steadfast loyalty to her mother-in-law, her sacramental love and care for her, would be recognized and rewarded. She who had been a foreigner, daughter-in-law to Naomi, the returning exile, would marry the man who had stayed in the land—she became included among the people of God.

There is something more than blood kinship at work here; there is more than fulfilling an obligation of law. There is grace, and welcome, and faith made effective in love.

The story goes on to tell us about the children of Ruth, her son Obed (which means “servant”), her grandson Jesse, and of Jesse’s son—David, who would become king.

This widow, in her steadfast love and loyalty, her selfless care, is not the only widow extolled in today’s stories. She is not the only example of God’s care, of what it is to live in faith.

In the gospels we hear parable after parable to tell us what the kingdom of God is like. It is like a treasure buried in a field, it is like a pearl beyond price, it is like a mustard seed; it is like a father welcoming home his prodigal son.

Today also we have what amounts to a living parable, the poor widow that Jesus watched in the Temple, as she gave without stinting her last two coins, all she had to live on—in effect, her whole life—given over as a free gift to God.

Look, Jesus said to his men: there it is.

This is what the kingdom of God is like. It is like a poor widow, who on reaching the Temple gave without reserve her whole life as a sacrificial offering to God. She, unlike the others who came there that day, had no prominence in the eyes of men: she had no large gift to catch the eye, nothing that would show off well, just a simple gift—of everything.

Where is the good news in this story?

The good news is manifest in God’s unfailing love, open-handed beyond caution or common sense, acted out by this woman at the Temple treasury.

The good news is in God’s open-handed love, beyond precedent in the lives of men or women, which would soon be shown by Jesus himself, as he offered himself as a sacrificial offering, once for all.

The priests who entered the Holy of Holies, Hebrews reminds us, did so every year: not so our Lord, who once in his lifetime offered his whole life to God, for the redeeming of us all.

This is what the world looks like when God is truly in charge: a world in which all comes from God, and everything we have we have from God. All we offer to God—our gifts, our work, our offerings of thanks—comes from God and it is to God that we return.

So Ruth is welcomed home to a place she had never been before; she is welcome, known, recognized, as one of the very own of God—generous, loving heart, faithful—she is home, for the very first time.

So we too are welcome, in the kingdom of God, a world characterized by what the Hebrews called chesed, loyalty or faithfulness arising from commitment, the steadfast love of a loving Lord, the God who first loved us.

The widows in the story of Ruth, the widow in the Temple—they are exemplars to us of faith in living. The widow in the Temple does not give her whole life, her two coins, as a bet—she is not placing a desperate wager on the generosity of the Messiah. This isn’t a holy lottery, hoping that last dollar will turn into thousands. She is, by what she does, showing us a picture of absolute faith in the providence of God, the one who has given her all she has, and of whose own provision she has made radical return. We don’t, most of us, give with that little thought for the morrow.

Giving out of the abundance God has granted us, with thanks, with obedience, with grace, and with the knowledge that all we have is his, is what we do: it is the human thing to do.

What we see in the widow’s mite is more than just a human response—it is a sign, of God’s grace, of God’s abundance, of God’s profligate generosity. For soon, as the story carries us forward, this same son of Man who watched the widow put her two coins in the Treasury, will himself be given—will give himself—as the gift of God for our own souls’ redeeming.

He is the one who did not count equality with God as a thing to be held onto, but will be the one of whom it is said, God so loved the world that he gave his only Son that whoever believed in him, whoever trusted him so completely as to put their whole life into his care, would not perish but live eternally.

Everlasting life—and the love that is its source—is what stands behind the widows’ story.

Love, loyalty, life itself: time, talent, treasure: all we have, all we give, comes from God—who gave himself for us.

Guide me, God of grace, to give, as you would have me give, of what you have given me.

AMEN.


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The Lessons appointed for use on the 23rd Sunday after Pentecost;
Proper 27, Year B, in the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL):

Ruth 3:1-5; 4:13-17 and Psalm 127
(or 1 Kings 17:8-16 and Psalm 146)
Hebrews 9:24-28
Mark 12:38-44


The Abingdon Bible Commentary
(Abingdon Press, 1929)

The HarperCollins Study Bible, Revised Edition (HarperSanFrancisco, 2006). Galatians 5:6, n.

The New Revised Standard Version Bible (National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America, 1989)

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Sunday, September 20, 2009

the greatest sermon ever

In the name of God, merciful Father, compassionate Son, Spirit of wisdom. Amen.

Then they came to Capernaum; and when he was in the house he asked them, "What were you arguing about on the way?" But they were silent, for on the way they had argued with one another who was the greatest. — Mark 9:33-34

A capable wife, who can find?
— Proverbs 31:10

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In her column in the newspaper last Friday, [“Clinging to Civility”, Boston Globe, September 18, 2009] Ellen Goodman reflected on a moment recently in a Virginia schoolhouse when a ninth-grader asked the president of the United States a question that had nothing and everything to do with his presidency — and nothing and everything to do with us today: “And if you could have dinner with anyone, dead or alive, who would it be?’’

It was an interesting question – and it got an interesting answer. The president picked Gandhi, Mohandas Gandhi, a lawyer like himself — better known as the nonviolent leader of the movement for independence for India from Imperial Britain. Gandhi is revered among nonviolent leaders, as the model emulated by Martin Luther King, Jr., and as a practitioner of the teachings of both Buddha and Jesus — someone who tried to put into practice the seemingly impractical teachings of peaceful resistance to violent oppression.

It occurred to me, as I thought about this question, and its answer, that the president had more immediate access to a greater dinner partner than the one he chose. Any Sunday – and perhaps any day – he could look out the windows of the White House and then walk across Lafayette Square to St. John’s Episcopal Church, and share a meal with Jesus. The Eucharist, the Lord’s Supper, is on offer that often – and in it we break bread with Jesus, and one another, and all those who have gone before us and will come after us, in Christ.

In Christ, in the mystery of the Holy Eucharist, we are present to all those who partake of that meal – and we are present to Christ, to Jesus, the living Savior, the Lord of Life. He is the greatest teacher of how to live, through his words and through his deeds, that the world has ever known. It’s just that easy – and it really is that hard. It is hard because the road that Jesus traveled is hard. It was so hard that the disciples rejected it out of hand when they first heard what it would really mean. It is not clear that they even understood.

No! Peter said. Must it be?
It must be, it must be, said Jesus.

And then he told them: the Son of Man will be, must be, betrayed, and suffer, and die – and then after three days be raised. The first news is unacceptable, the last unfathomable. How can this be?

With God all things are possible. Through God’s promise we know – what we cannot know, what we cannot imagine: that after the struggle, the passion, and the death, there is new life, hope beyond hope, that ends in a scene beyond dreams.

It certainly is not a human hope – not the triumph of the Cowboys over the Broncos, for example.

Who is the greatest, the disciples argue. The book of Proverbs has given a picture of greatness, of a life worthy of praise and admiration, which is already a change from what we might first guess.

A good woman, who can find?

In simple-seeming accomplishments, seen – if they are seen – every day, greatness exists.

The greatest, it appears, even in human terms, is not always the most evident. It is quite a picture the Proverbs paint, of a partner in life who is successful, productive, and wise.

Underlying all her accomplishments is strength of character. And yet – “it is for her fear of the Lord that a woman is to be praised.” (v.30, JSB)

Here is Jesus, remember – he has just told the disciples what is going to happen. He has told them that following the way of Christ means following the way of the Cross. He has told them that “the Son of Man is to be betrayed into human hands, and they will kill him, and three days after being killed, he will rise again.” They don’t get it! They’re afraid to ask. And so they go back to something they know, something familiar and comfortable: arguing – who’s going to be Number One?

He tells them something strange – something a little bit hard for a self-respecting disciple to accept. He says:

Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all.

And then he does something a bit surprising. Who is the greatest? Let me show you… and he puts in front of them the last person they’d suspect, not even one of the twelve disciples.

He took a little child and put it among them; and taking it in his arms, he said to them, "Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who sent me."

A child? – A child may be a picture of innocence to us, perhaps of ignorance or insignificance to others. A child? A child is certainly not great in the eyes of the world.

And yet at the Seder, the meal celebrated by Jews all over the world at the beginning of Passover, it is the smallest child who asks the greatest question: “what makes this night different from all other nights?”

The power of God, the faith of the people, the work of the Holy Spirit – and a child.

A child, asking innocently, to remind us of the work of God in our own lives, as God redeemed the people of Israel, delivered them long ago and led them through all the dangers and trials of their lives on a difficult trail that led at last to the land of promise.

Of the truly great – the ones that follow the way of the Lord and not the way of the world, the psalmist sings,

Their delight is in the law of the LORD,
and they meditate on his law day and night.

They are like trees planted by streams of water,
bearing fruit in due season, with leaves that do not wither;
everything they do shall prosper.

This is a greatness that does not look to be great – it looks beyond itself, to where true wisdom is born. It is the stature of service, the power of prayer: an eminence of humility.

Then James asks us to look around and see:

Who is wise and understanding among you? Show by your good life that your works are done with gentleness born of wisdom.

James contrasts for us the wisdom of gentleness with the wisecracking foolishness of the world. What source can disorder and wickedness have, what place can they have in the heart, when wisdom and understanding are of the Lord?

Pure, peaceable, gentle, merciful, bountiful, and sincere – this is the wisdom that comes from God, this is the peace that falls on us like gentle rain; this is the source of justice.

This wisdom, this gentleness, this righteousness, is embodied for us in one human being, one sent from God.

There was one person who set aside all his possible glory, all his potential for great stature in the eyes of the world, and took upon himself a life and a passion and a death that he could have avoided. He could have turned aside. He did not swerve from the path; he kept straight toward the goal: the goal of eternal life, for us.

By his birth and suffering and death he embodied the hope of Glory – and this Glory can live in you. Take upon yourself the gift of Christ and enter into his love. Take into yourself his gift of life – through the common meal we share in the Eucharist. Remember his body and blood as you partake of consecrated bread and wine.

As we make Eucharist together the Lord’s Supper with his disciples becomes present to us in this place, in this time. We take communion together, with each other and with him. And in him we find life – life beyond what the world can know, peace beyond what the world can give, and an inheritance with all the saints that is beyond what we can imagine.

You are invited to the table of the Lord.

Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.

Come, Lord Jesus, be our guest, and let thy gifts to us be blessed. Amen.

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Proverbs 31:10-31
Psalm 1
James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a
Mark 9:30-37

Jewish Study Bible (Oxford, 2003)

St. Alban’s Episcopal Church, Edmonds, Wash.,
The 16th Sunday after Pentecost, September 16, 2009.

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